Revelation

  I ask myself, "Were do I start?" There have been so much happen in the last few months. It seems life is sometime hard to understand. Between work and my personal life there is not much time for anything. I don't know who ever…

Gay Charlotte, Sex Shaming and meeting new people.

Good afternoon and welcome to another post from yours truly, Adam! So after this weekend disconnecting and really thinking about things, I have a few topics I would like to talk about. It seems these topics are things people don't want to…

Gays and Ghosting.

Hello Everyone and welcome to another wonderful post from yours truly. So I have been so excited about my new web platform I am using for my new blog, I do think it is a closer fit to what I originally wanted. So I wanted to cover a topic…

How maturing can change your outlook on life, sex and men in general.

Hello everyone and welcome to another fabulous post from yours truly. Lets talk about sex, men and life changes. How maturing can change men, your life and sex. So I have been feeling a few different things after being single and out of…

Rebuilding

It just happens I have not wrote a post in a long time and I have a lot to say. I think first I’ll start with what’s new with me. Well to name a few things I have a new job I love, I am recently single and I have had to figure out how to…

a blessing and a curse

So it occurred to me finally and I fully understood what "a blessing and a curse" means. So while having a conversation, in which was very hard for me to have, someone finally made me realize what this saying means. We were talking someone being…

Letter to my 18-Year-Old Self.

Dear 18-year-old Adam: Its your senior year and there will be a-lot of obstacles, don't give up because you will often times want to. Instead of running to Charlotte every chance you get stick around to hang out with friends from high school…

FūRNACE and Dance.

Hello, and welcome to another fabulous post from yours truely and I’m not talking about that amazing malt beverage. So this past Saturday I went to an event at the local LGBT bar in Charlotte called Argon, They were having an event…

Cocktails?and CockTalk?....Spill the Tea!

Hello Beautiful People. And welcome to another wonderful post from yours truly. Oh my gosh guys, So many new things are happening. From no longer smoking to getting back in touch with my intuition by exploring the use of crystals, and no I don't…

Drugs and Sex and Drinks.

So I have wanted to write about the use of drugs in the gay community for a long time. And I was not sure how to start this so I'll give it a whirl. First and foremost I am not writing about this topic to put anyone down or judge them, I just…

PrEP and Unprotected Sex?

It's time I break my silence about this issue. It has been something that I have not understood for 3 years. In the winter of 2014 I was raped. After that happened I decided to talk to my doctor about taking PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis). I…

Grindr or Fifty Shades of Gay?

While visiting New York this past weekend I noticed a few things. First, large metropolitan areas have a large amount of..... how can I put this......Windows, I can't tell you how many times I have walked down 9th Ave and looked above a store…

The Edge of 23

And just like that it came to me! "Why am I still writing about the past when I could be writing about 'real' life things as a 22 year old?" The past is the past and if your like me you don't have much room for skeletons in your closet, you…